It’s Rodeo, Houston. And this year, the world is paying closer attention to Texas, thanks to Houston’s own Beyonce Knowles and her surprise country single, ‘Texas Hold ’em. It’s no secret that I am a fan of Beyonce. I have written at least three dedicated posts on this blog about the intersection of Queen B and Family Law (1,2,3,). The first time I saw Beyonce in concert was the Rodeo in 2001. Tickets were only $20. That was then.
Cook Off Tickets, Anyone?
I last went to the Rodeo in 2014, but it’s on this year’s agenda. Also, if anyone has any cook-off tickets for sale this weekend, send me a message. I have mediation this morning but’ll be ready for some BBQ this evening.
Today is also Go Texan Day, which is celebrated every year on the Friday before the Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo (HLSR). It was created as a way to generate excitement before the main event.
As I was getting ready for the HLSR events this week, I found myself listening to Garth Brooks’ “Calling Baton Rouge” on repeat. It’s basically LSU’s theme song, and it got me thinking about the recurring themes in country music and how they relate to child custody cases. Country music often explores the themes of relationships and revenge, and it’s interesting how these two topics can sometimes intersect. But have you ever thought about how revenge and relationships can affect a custody case? From heartbreak to getting even, the impact of relationships and revenge on custody cases can turn a seemingly straightforward case into a complex one.
Relationships in Country Music and Child Custody Cases
Without a doubt, relationships are a prevalent theme in both country music and custody cases. Country music is a genre that has a unique way of capturing the essence of human emotions. It is an art that portrays the joys and struggles of love, heartbreak, and forgiveness in a raw and honest way, especially when it comes to relationships.
When relationships break down, they often result in family court cases. Understandably, many individuals want to avoid a court dictating when they can see their child or how to provide financial support. But, it is essential to understand that court orders are typically placed when parents can no longer come to an agreement on matters concerning their child.
Revenge in Country Music and Child Custody Cases
The theme of revenge is a common thread that runs through both country music and custody cases. In country music, artists delve into the darker aspects of human nature, often exploring the consequences of seeking vengeance. They use their music to tell stories of heartbreak, betrayal, and the desire for payback.
Likewise, in custody cases, the theme of revenge can emerge when one parent seeks to gain an advantage over the other by using the legal system to get back at them. In both cases, the desire for revenge can have disastrous consequences, causing pain and suffering for all involved.
“Why do people lie during custody battles?” The answer is often revenge. I have had cases where the parties have lodged allegations of physical assault or sexual abuse of the child. I chose to use the word ‘allegations’ deliberately because it highlights the extent some individuals are willing to go in custody battles.
It is crucial to remember that seeking revenge in child custody cases is highly damaging to both parents and the child involved. Instead, prioritize the child’s best interests over anger or resentment and work towards a resolution that benefits all parties concerned.
Conclusion: Redemption
As mentioned earlier, country music touches upon various themes that are relevant to family law. There are times when people make mistakes in their court cases and feel helpless. However, one of the finest themes of country music and life is redemption.
The Putman Firm, PLLC is a family law litigation firm that handles a wide array of family matters including criminal matters that intersect family law, i.e. family violence assault cases, protective orders (criminal and civil) and allegations of child abuse.
If you are dealing with a family law case where the relationship has considerably deteriorated, suspect revenge, or believe you deserve redemption, please do not hesitate to reach out to us at (281) 501-9033. You can also schedule a consultation by visiting Your Family Law Attorney.
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