By: E.A. Putman
The struggle for power due to limited resources is a common theme in both Arrakis and child custody cases.
As a dystopian film fan, I discovered Dune on a flight in January. Its captivating storyline and stunning visuals left me wanting more. Last week, I finally watched the sequel, Dune 2. I was amazed by Timothée Chalamet and Zendaya’s performance in navigating the treacherous desert in Dune 2. Without revealing any spoilers, the movie’s premise revolves around a battle for power with limited resources, similar to child custody cases.
The parallels between the movie’s storyline and litigation reminded me of a CLE I attended years ago that focused on lawyers representing people with limited resources. Restricted access to resources greatly hinders litigating, and it’s no secret. The issue is not a lack of desire or belief in success, but rather financial constraints that prevent individuals from pursuing legal action.
Arrakis is a planet in the Dune universe, known for its valuable resources that other planets still need. The control of Arrakis is a central theme in the Dune series, leading to conflict between factions vying for power and wealth.
Access to resources can significantly impact the outcome of child custody cases. It can be challenging when financial resources, such as the ability to hire an experienced lawyer or a child custody expert, can dramatically influence the outcome of a case. However, despite the lack of resources, there are potential ways to level the playing field and increase the chances of success in a family law case.
1. Keep Your Goals Realistic
One of the most effective strategies is to keep your goals realistic and achievable. This means setting clear, specific objectives that align with the facts of your case and the available evidence. Doing this will ensure that your lawyer can develop a solid legal strategy tailored to your unique situation. If a parent works 12-hour shifts four days a week, it may not be feasible for them to have primary custody of the child. Similarly, the parent-child relationship is such that the child cannot even recognize the parent; it’s hard to see how a court would grant primary custody to that parent unless the other parent has serious issues. In any case, it’s always best to work with your lawyer to determine what’s achievable and what’s not.
2. Recognize Legal counsel (JD) vs. Therapist council (LPC)
Another important consideration is to remember that your lawyer is not a licensed mental health professional. While it’s natural to feel stressed and anxious during a legal case, it’s important to remember that your lawyer is there to provide legal guidance and advice. Keeping your conversations with your lawyer focused on the legal issues will ensure your case stays on track and make the most of your billable hours.
3. Participate in Your Case
Finally, taking an active role in your legal case is crucial. Remember, your lawyer is there to execute the legal strategy, but your story was written before you even stepped into their office. Therefore, it is essential to attend all scheduled meetings and hearings and promptly provide your lawyer with any relevant information or evidence. Be confident in your participation and take control of your case!
Child custody cases can be difficult for parents with limited financial resources. However, some strategies can help them maximize their financial and emotional resources, increasing their chances of success. By adapting to the realities of the custody process and utilizing available resources, parents can achieve the best possible outcome for themselves and their children.
The Putman Firm, PLLC is a family law litigation firm that handles a wide array of family matters including criminal matters that intersect family law, i.e. family violence assault cases, protective orders (criminal and civil) and allegations of child abuse.
If you are dealing with a family law case where the relationship has considerably deteriorated, suspect revenge, or believe you deserve redemption, please do not hesitate to reach out to us at (281) 501-9033. You can also schedule a consultation by visiting Your Family Law Attorney.
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